Life is a long journey . Unless we consciosly attempt to make the journey comfortable and enjoyable, the charm of the journey is lost.There are simple tips to make it refreshing and enjoyable.At the first glance, it might appear as philosophical and not practical, but as one goes thru with it and earnestly attempts every time, in all walks of his/her life, its impact will be felt in an amazing manner.
And ofcourse, the immediate response will be that it is easy to preach than to practice. Let me assure my readers that i have been in this journey for the last 59 years and let me be honest..i have fretted and fumed my self several times during this journey.But then relaisation has dawned that fretting and fuming does not take any one any where. In fact it makes one more sullen, with drawn and deserted.And therefore the viable alternative is to take it as it comes.
Let me come to the point straight instead of going in circles.One should have a firm belief that what ever is happening is for good .One should further have the confidence in one's own capabilities to understand that what is deserved by hime/her shall come .MAY BE WITH DELAYS.But certainly it will come and the factor requiring attention is PATIENCE.And in the interugnum lesser the comparison with others the better.Many a time we see others , judge them from the way they speak, move , dress , earn and spend and start beliving that to be the true reflection of them, while many a time we miss out the obvious. On emay be decently employed, but may be continuously having tiff with superiors, one may appear to be easy going type, but may be inwardly bleeding, on emay show off as a very happy married person, and behind the curtains may be praying for a divorce and so on and so on. I am reminded of the famous words(i forgot as usual as to who said it) that a male and female may be in the same bed , even hugging each other , but at the same time their minds may be miles away.And that is the reality. Let me not be dubbed as Cynical.
The purpose of this blog is that there is a definite distributed quota of happiness and sadness to all human beings alike. It is our own comparison, anxities and fears which make the situation worse.If we can understand that and move forward, life would be worth living.Mind you, each day is gifted by god to us and his presence is gifted thru the "present" and let us not carry forward the burden of "yesterdays" and the anxities of "tomorrows" to mar the happiness of "today".
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