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Friday, August 7, 2009

MEMORIES , SOME SWEET AND SOME BITTER

It is almost a month since i posted my first post.The reason for the delay..guess it ..
Yes, you guessed it right, i have forgotten my pass word.
so it took some time to get a new pass word and here is my second post.

Hence those who heaved a sigh of relief that they have escaped the ramblings in my blog, will have to curse their fate as i am back with a vengence..

In between few things happened, the good ones (or is it really good) first..I have been promoted up the l;adder by my organisation.Is it good or bad is a debatable question..may be good for me and bad for them or vice versa..

And that takes me to the label of this post...MEMORIES.
When you travel down the memory lane you find that the memories which gave you the maximum comfort and happiness initially slowly drifted away to be replaced by some other memories of equal or stronger intensity. The feelings associated with such memories (good or bad) however strong they remained at the initial time of memory slowly lost its blunt later and remained a scar.

And therefore why do we suffer so much at the revisit of memories, if the memories and their impact are not of permanace? It is because we ahve put the persons and the events associated with the memories on our priority where as what ought to be done is to place the self as the prioirity.

Sounds crude and blunt and selfish..Right ..
Yes truth is always bitter and difficult to digest...

But look around you and see the persons who are happy ..all at some point of time have trampled on other's feelings and then (hold your breath) moved on with out even thinking a fraction of a second as to what they they did or as to what they did not do ...MAY BE LOVE, MAY BE FRIENDSHIP, MAY BE A RELATIONSHIP , MAY BE A CONTRACT , AND SO MANY MAY BE's WHEN DAY IN AND DAY OUT ONE FINDS THE DOUBLE STANDARDS...

Therefore give the memories , whether good or bad, the attention they deserve and then move on.
Make it a point that if you can leave with some one a memorable moment and a beautiful memeory (whether the other person has understood or not, resiprocated or not) thne your emories will always be sweet only.other wise they are going to be bitter..

HENCE MEMORIES , GOOD BYE TO THEE AS I HAVE MANY MORE MILES TO CONQUER AND POSSIBLY MANY MORE MEMORIES TO BE REVISITED AND RELEARNT AND RECREATED.....................................................................................